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BBHQ Boomer Essays:

Our House - Part 3: Reclaiming Our Past

Our Boomer-In-Charge here at BBHQ, Hershel Chicowitz, writes frequently about current events... from a boomer perspective. He is sometimes funny, sometimes provocative, sometimes a little of each. We hope you get a kick out of our Boomer Essays.

One of the challenges we face frequently at BBHQ deals with the issue of reclaiming our past. After all, BBHQ is all about nostalgia. But "You can't go back," they say. And of course, they are right. Each moment in life is unique; each memory is like none other. Life is the art of drawing without an eraser.

So why do we spend so much time restoring old buildings to their "original state"? Is it merely for educational purposes? I think not. I think it goes beyond that.

Anyway, that is what has been going on at the compound here at BBHQ for about a year. We have owned the compound since... since before Al Gore invented the Internet. The Mazdamobile is 22 1/2 years old; yet we owned the compound before I bought the Mazdamobile. (Everything around us is old; it's part of the culture.)

Mind you, we have no intention of restoring the compound to its "original state":

The Compound

We think its original state is Virginia; but that's another story. We want to restore parts of it to the state they were in when we bought it. (Age, termites, and neglect have taken their toll.) We have made considerable enhancements to the compound. But some of the features of the house have been trampled upon.

When I was in the Boy Scouts, every summer we spent a week at the Beaumont Scout Reservation, in Amish country, about 40 miles east of Cleveland. We used the same campgrounds every year. Aside from being able to spot poison ivy at 20 feet, one of the important lessons we learned was to take care of our habitat, and always leave it in better condition than when we came. One year we leveled a large open space and made a baseball field. The next year we constructed a permanent 25-foot flagpole out of a tall tree.

In that spirit, we're working on landscaping at the compound this month. We want to make some improvements. But we also want to restore some of the original beauty (?) of the place. When we bought the compound, there was a huge ligustrum (I think that is what it is called) shrub on the far side of the garage. Unfortunately, the winter freeze of '91 killed him. Don't ask me why, but it took us a dozen years to replace him:

Then:

   
Now:

I know... he has a long way to go.

There was a 20-foot tree near the end of the driveway... apparently with very shallow roots. A tropical storm in '80 threw him off-balance:

Then:

   
Now:

(That's Princess's predecessor, RJ, standing in the driveway in the picture on the left, and, of course, Princess in the picture on the right.)

I did everything I could think of to save the tree. I tried to prop him up by parking my car with the front bumper up against the trunk. Not only did it not work, but it looked like I had missed the garage when I turned into the driveway and clobbered the tree. Anyway, we decided to replace him with a small palm tree... with deeper roots.

In the back yard I had installed a couple of posts and put up a hammock. Unfortunately my posts were not as sturdy as the flagpole we built back at Beaumont Camp; one of them failed the first time Princess and I used the hammock this spring. The post was buried so deep that I had to use all my powers and all my tools to remove it:

However, I did not use much common sense. Make a note here, boys and girls: trying to remove a post that is buried in the ground with a chain saw is not an approved Boy Scout technique. It is a poor way to protect one's personal equipment for possible future use.

We have two large oak trees out back. Every now and then they need to be trimmed. A couple weeks ago we had to cut back some branches that were hanging out over the canal:

That, however, did not please Gary the Gator, a long-time resident of the canal:

Gary the Gator

We called the folks at nearby Busch Gardens and relocated Gary. The next time you go to Busch Gardens in Tampa, say hi to Gary for us; tell him we miss him.

Anyway, trimming back the tree brought us some new neighbors. Meet the Woodlawns:

The Woodlawns

Curtis the Cactus sits right next to the compound, near the Woodlawns in the back yard. However, I am not sure if Curtis adds to the appearance of the yard:

He is a bit awkward-looking. And in another month or so he will be too big to fit under the eaves. The decision on what to do with Gary the Gator was easy. Curtis presents a dilemma.

It is true; you can't go back. But restoring things adds to the beauty of life; it brings order to a disorderly world, and provides a sense of stability to an unstable environment.

Rekindle the memory; capture the feeling.

That's a good thing.


The saga continues:

        Our House - Part 1
        Our House - Part 2: Home Improvement
        Mr. BrownThumb


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The Boomer Essays - On Being a Boomer:

Personal Stories of the Chicowitz:
    Exploring My Roots: A Chicowitz History
    A Trip to the Dentist
    The Chicowitz Gets Dumped - Again!
    Just Shoot Me!
    He Sleeps with the Fishes
    My Little Girl, Princess
    Why am I Still Single?
    The Plastic Surgery Saga
    Our House is a Very, Very, Very Fine House... Not!
    Our House - Part 2
    Our House - Part 3: Reclaiming the Past
    Middle Age and the Mazdamobile
    Down for the Count
    That Dirty Dancing
    Contemplations on the Hereafter
    Tool Time with the Chicowitz
    The Chicowitz Goes Country
    Born to be Screwed
    Mr. Brownthumb
    The Mixer - A Singles Story
    Crab Cakes

Midlife Crisis:
    The Defining Moment
    The Saga Continues
    Fighting Back
    The Straight Scoop

In December, Traditions of Christmas:
    1997: The Christmas Tree
    1998: Remembrance.... and Friends
    1999: Christmas Cards
    2001: Songs & Stories
    2002: The Gift of Giving
    2003: Decorating the Tree
    2004: The Christmas Pin
    2005: The Making of the Christmas Card
    2006: Christmas on a Toothpick
    2007: The Paper Route Years
    Merry Christmas, Y'all
    Hershel's Wish List: 2004
    The "A" List

Teach, Preach & Nag:
    Courage and Class: Tony Snow
    The New American Dream
    A Grateful Heart
    Things We'll Learn
    The Death of a Friend
    The Age of Non-Responsibility
    "Thank You": Another Dying Phrase
    The Saturday Night Live "Curse"
    The Boomers, the Xers and Beyond
    Rules, Boundaries and Consequences
    It's for the Children
    "American Beauty" - an American Nightmare
    Of Values and Legacies
    School Violence: Lessons from the Past
    The Boomer Lyrics are with Us Everywhere
    Everybody's Got a Story
    Power to the Boomers
    My Kingdom for a Plain Burger
    Perception is Reality?
    Oh Woe is Us!
    It's Soooooo Hard
    Take Care of Yourself
    Public Service
    The Universal Apology
    The Leader of the Band

Travels with Princess:
    A Camping We Will Go
    A Camping We Did Go
    Travels with Princess - Part 1
    Travels with Princess - Part 2
    Me and You and a Dog Named Princess
    Savannah: Midnight in the Garden
    Time to Think
    On Top of Old Smoky
    The Fall Leaves and Such

A View from Hurricane Alley:
    The Big Scare
    Before the Storm
    After the Storm
Katrina:
    Intemperate Thoughts
    Information Misload
    Wet Dream

Election 2004:
    JF Kerry: Just the Facts
    A Discussion of the Issues
    The Election 2004 Quiz
    Find a Bush Lie -- Collect $5,000
    Talking Dirty in Washington
    I Believe - The George W. Bush Edition
    Inside John Kerry
    Why Character Matters - Part Umpteen
    Reporting for Duty
    Is it Safe Yet?
    Why We/They Hate Bush
    Ronald Reagan: Hard-Wired Decency
    What I Am
    Nov. 8: Post-Mortem

Election 2006:
    I Believe -- the Election 2006 Edition
    A Civil Debate

A Boomer Remembers...:
    The 60s: Life was Sweeter
    The New American Dream
    Another Side of the Greatest Generation
    Where has all the Music Gone?
    Memories of the Sock Hop
    Remembering the Chairman of the Board
    Restless in Seattle
    The New Math
    We Are Not One Boomer
    "And Here's to You, Joe DiMaggio"
    The Days of Summers Past
    The Seeds of Character
    A Letter to a Teacher
    I Want a Clark Bar!
    When Music was Fun
    Decoration Day - The Measure of Sacrifice
    11/22/63: We Remember
    Flashback: The Y2K Hysteria
    When the Music had Words
    Ronald Reagan: Hard-Wired Decency
    The Great Carsoni
    Love Songs of the Chicowitz
    Do You Remember These?
    V-A-C-A-T-I-O-N -- We're on Vacation!
    A Watergate Success Story

Straight Talk on Social Issues:
    Money 101: Incentive
    Health Care: Solutions
    Dr. Jack - A Man for Our Times
    Misplaced Outrage: The Imus Affair
    Global Warming Warning
    Sin Offsets
    Immigration: Good Fences
    July, 2006: The Price of Freedom
    Oh, Woe is Babs!
    "Fair and Balanced"?
    Lower Education
    Boomer Retirement: "Hell No, We Won't Go!"
    Social Security for Dummies
    Feelings over Facts
    Talking Down the Economy
    The Little Red Hen
    The Singles' Journal: Marriage
    The Shadow IRS
    The Dumbing Down of America
    The Next, Great Entitlement
    Voting Our way to Fairness
    Straight Talk on Energy
    We are Losing the Culture War
    A Taxpayers' Bill of Rights
    The Greedy Hand Extends its Reach
    My Kingdom for a Candidate
    Another Hat in the Toilet
    We Have Met the Enemy
    I'm From the Government & I'm Here to Help You
    B. Clinton: The Case Against the President
    B. Clinton: The Case For the President
    Charlton Heston: The Culture War
    Head Start: The Difference between Red and Blue
    Labor Day - The Entrepreneur
    It's Lonely at the Top
    Kids on Drugs
    Roe v. Wade Reality
    Stem Cell 101
    Vietnam: From a Distance
    Iraq: Another Vietnam - ?

Mostly, Just Silly Stuff:
    Sin Offsets
    Menopause: Just for Laughs
    The Fat Tax
    Cell Phones & Other Crimes & Misdemeanors
    Like Father, Like Son
    Where Have You Gone, Walter Cronkite?
    A Dire Warning to all Boomers
    An Aging Boomer's Final Call to Action
    BoomerSpeak
    "American Pie": a Fresh Interpretation
    Hail to Thee, My Alma Mater
    Rock On!
    The BBHQ Exam Story
    Great Quotations
    The $2.5 Million Pyramid
    I Double-Dare You!

The Terrorist Attack of 2001:
    The Best of Times
    Showing Your Patriotism
    "All We are Saaaaaaaa-ying..."
    2004: Is it Safe Yet?

The Chicowitz on Iraq:
    Politics for Dummies - Part I
    Peace in Our Time
    Yankee Go Home!
    Bullhorn Responsibility
    Blood for Oil!
    Why We Fight
    They Said - Part 1
    They Said - Part 2
    Why They're Wrong

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