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Time to Think

Our Boomer-In-Charge here at BBHQ, Hershel Chicowitz, writes frequently about current events... from a boomer perspective. He is sometimes funny, sometimes provocative, sometimes a little of each. We hope you get a kick out of our Boomer Essays.

October, 2004:

One of the most under-rated and under-reported vacation destinations is the basic campground in the woods. You will not hear of great deals on camping vacations at Expedia or Travelocity. And, although Mickey has his Camp Wilderness at Disneyworld, his idea of camping is not in sync with mine - especially when a 20 by 20 plot of dirt rents for $55 a night. Anyway, as part of our annual BBHQ retreat, Princess and I went camping in the woods of northern Georgia last week.

We're not sophisticated enough to have an RV, a camper, or a popup camper. Dick Abbott, my old Boy Scout troop leader, would frown upon any such decadence. We roughed it - sorta. We pitched and camped in a tent. Princess loved it. I thought it was pretty cool, too.    

Our campsite this year was at the Bald Ridge Campground at Lake Lanier, about 30 miles northeast of Atlanta. It was fabulous! For four days, we never saw a computer, never used (nor thought of) the Internet, never heard of nor thought about the election... it really was refreshing. I have some thoughts on that. But first I have some pictures to share with you.

Of course, no picture is going to do it justice. But this was the view of the lake behind our campsite.

Always the contrarian, I took pride that, out of about 75 campsites, ours was the only one hosting a tent - the others had those new-fangled, mechanical things. (Note Princess, at my feet, looking up at me, wondering who the heck her dad is waving at.)    

People who make a lifestyle of this thing often go to great lengths to personalize, customize, modernize, and sissify their digs. Many of them set up their own lamp post, identifying themselves and their point of origin. Scoutmaster Abbott would have scoffed at that, too.

Some people accessorize their space with seasonal accoutrements. I guess there was a shortage of Columbus Day decorations. I'm not sure what this is. It looks kinda like three of Santa's elves climbing out of a pumpkin chimney.

   

Or Snap, Crackle and Pop, maybe?

Now... this family went over the edge, as far as I am concerned. You have to look close. But there is a television set mounted into the side of the RV, positioned so that they can sit outside in the open and watch TV. Echhhh!! They are missing the whole point here, folks! If John Kerry becomes president, I am going to write to him and suggest that he outlaw such things. This is the kind of thing the Democrats would just love to get involved in. I think they should start here. This is pathetic!

One of the things that I noted when I wrote about camping before is that it gets dark at night. Real dark. This is our tent from about 40 feet away:

Of course, we had electricity and some modest innovations, thanks to Mr. Edison. That allowed Princess to find her place on the cot before it was "lights out" time.

The tent brochure says it can handle three people. Yeah, like a phone booth can handle a dozen people, too. Lemme tell you, with just Princess and me, it was pretty tight.

   

Time to Think

One of our regular visitors asked us what we did after dark, all night long. Well, I was tempted to reply that it was none of her business what we did; but I decided that her question was not only innocent, but provocative, as well.

I cannot speak for Princess. But mostly, I thought. I sat and thought. About things: right and wrong; good and evil; plans; dreams; aging; directions; choices; family; what is important and what is not.

It was a great exercise for me... very inspiring.

I firmly believe that one of the reasons we make poor choices in our lives is that we rush into making decisions. We're too busy doing "stuff" to take the time necessary to think about and make measured, wise decisions. The (too often) messy result, then, is what one might expect. We see it all around us, every day

Our ancestors were not that much smarter than we are. But, for them, it was dark at night -- every night. They had time to think about things. A lot of time. So, they thought. A lot. And from that, I believe, came wisdom - wisdom and good decisions. It is a wisdom that too few of us possess today.

I believe that our ancestors would be appalled at the foolish decisions many of us make, in this so-called "englightened" age. Enlightened, my keister! I know my old Uncle Coot grumbles all the time at the idiotic decisions into which we stumble.

And he's been dead for a quarter century.

Though, I imagine, since they were not all that smarter than we are, that they could not program their VCRs any better than we can. And after a power failure, their VCRs flashed "12:00" - just as ours do.

Oh wait.... they did not have VCRs, did they? A few generations ago, they did not have electric power, either.

But they had wisdom. Great wisdom.

Because they had the time to think.

Why don't we have the time to think?

Why don't we take the time to think?

Can you imagine the presidential candidates and their wives camping in the wilderness in a tent for a weekend? Can you see George Bush pitching a tent and cuddling up to Laura at night? Yeah; I can see that.

Can you see the richest man in the Senate and his wife, one of the 400 wealthiest people in the country, sitting at a picnic table, tapping their feet impatiently while the servants set up the tent and prepare the sleeping bags? Can you picture Teresa Heinz Kerry snuggling up to the haughty, French-looking John Kerry in the tent?

That settles it for me. I know who I am voting for.

A lot of people our age think that camping in a tent is not for them. And that's fine. But it was a heck of a lot of fun for us. So if you must, go the RV route. But in any event.... go. You won't regret it.

Besides.... we had time to think.

   

 

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Personal Stories of the Chicowitz:
    Exploring My Roots: A Chicowitz History
    A Trip to the Dentist
    The Chicowitz Gets Dumped - Again!
    Just Shoot Me!
    He Sleeps with the Fishes
    My Little Girl, Princess
    Why am I Still Single?
    The Plastic Surgery Saga
    Our House is a Very, Very, Very Fine House... Not!
    Our House - Part 2
    Our House - Part 3: Reclaiming the Past
    Middle Age and the Mazdamobile
    Down for the Count
    That Dirty Dancing
    Contemplations on the Hereafter
    Tool Time with the Chicowitz
    The Chicowitz Goes Country
    Born to be Screwed
    Mr. Brownthumb
    The Mixer - A Singles Story
    Crab Cakes

Midlife Crisis:
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    The Saga Continues
    Fighting Back
    The Straight Scoop

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    2002: The Gift of Giving
    2003: Decorating the Tree
    2004: The Christmas Pin
    2005: The Making of the Christmas Card
    2006: Christmas on a Toothpick
    2007: The Paper Route Years
    Merry Christmas, Y'all
    Hershel's Wish List: 2004
    The "A" List

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    The New American Dream
    A Grateful Heart
    Things We'll Learn
    The Death of a Friend
    The Age of Non-Responsibility
    "Thank You": Another Dying Phrase
    The Saturday Night Live "Curse"
    The Boomers, the Xers and Beyond
    Rules, Boundaries and Consequences
    It's for the Children
    "American Beauty" - an American Nightmare
    Of Values and Legacies
    School Violence: Lessons from the Past
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    Power to the Boomers
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    It's Soooooo Hard
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    Public Service
    The Universal Apology
    The Leader of the Band

Travels with Princess:
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    A Camping We Did Go
    Travels with Princess - Part 1
    Travels with Princess - Part 2
    Me and You and a Dog Named Princess
    Savannah: Midnight in the Garden
    Time to Think
    On Top of Old Smoky
    The Fall Leaves and Such

A View from Hurricane Alley:
    The Big Scare
    Before the Storm
    After the Storm
Katrina:
    Intemperate Thoughts
    Information Misload
    Wet Dream

Election 2004:
    JF Kerry: Just the Facts
    A Discussion of the Issues
    The Election 2004 Quiz
    Find a Bush Lie -- Collect $5,000
    Talking Dirty in Washington
    I Believe - The George W. Bush Edition
    Inside John Kerry
    Why Character Matters - Part Umpteen
    Reporting for Duty
    Is it Safe Yet?
    Why We/They Hate Bush
    Ronald Reagan: Hard-Wired Decency
    What I Am
    Nov. 8: Post-Mortem

Election 2006:
    I Believe -- the Election 2006 Edition
    A Civil Debate

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    The New American Dream
    Another Side of the Greatest Generation
    Where has all the Music Gone?
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    Restless in Seattle
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    The Seeds of Character
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    11/22/63: We Remember
    Flashback: The Y2K Hysteria
    When the Music had Words
    Ronald Reagan: Hard-Wired Decency
    The Great Carsoni
    Love Songs of the Chicowitz
    Do You Remember These?
    V-A-C-A-T-I-O-N -- We're on Vacation!
    A Watergate Success Story

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    Money 101: Incentive
    Health Care: Solutions
    Dr. Jack - A Man for Our Times
    Misplaced Outrage: The Imus Affair
    Global Warming Warning
    Sin Offsets
    Immigration: Good Fences
    July, 2006: The Price of Freedom
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    Lower Education
    Boomer Retirement: "Hell No, We Won't Go!"
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    Feelings over Facts
    Talking Down the Economy
    The Little Red Hen
    The Singles' Journal: Marriage
    The Shadow IRS
    The Dumbing Down of America
    The Next, Great Entitlement
    Voting Our way to Fairness
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    We are Losing the Culture War
    A Taxpayers' Bill of Rights
    The Greedy Hand Extends its Reach
    My Kingdom for a Candidate
    Another Hat in the Toilet
    We Have Met the Enemy
    I'm From the Government & I'm Here to Help You
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    Labor Day - The Entrepreneur
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