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Is it just me, or is it much harder these days to find role models on
the world's stage? Forget the ball players; there are more than a few
rotten apples in that bloated barrel. Movie stars and celebrities? I
don't think so. National political leaders? Gone are the likes of Senators
Everett Dirksen and William Proxmire and Congresswoman Barbara Jordan.
The church? Whew; leaving aside Billy Graham, it'll take a century for
the church to cleanse itself.
Well, allow me a few minutes here, and I'll give you something to
wash the sour taste out of your mouth. I'd like to introduce you to Tony
Snow.
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Most of you may recognize the name. Tony Snow is the White House
press secretary. Yes, he is in the middle of the mud; he has been there
for much of his adult life. But don't let that cloud your view of him.
Tony Snow is one of us.
Tony is a boomer; he the son of a school teacher in Cincinnati. His
mother died of cancer when Tony was 17. Tony received a B.A. degree in
philosophy from Davidson University. And just what do you do with a
degree in philosophy? Well, you become a journalist, of course.
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Tony worked for newspapers in North Carolina, Michigan and Virginia.
He also taught geography and physics in Kenya. He's been around. Tony
worked for USA Today, National Public Radio, among other well-known
organizations. Tony Snow served as the chief speech-writer for George
Bush, 41.
I first heard of Tony Snow when he was host of Fox's "Fox News
Sunday." I found him to be bright and engaging. He was an insider,
without being too far inside. But that's all I knew about him.
In 2003 Tony left the TV show to start his own radio talk show. The
field was crowded; it seemed to me like a strange move. But on the radio,
Tony was free to talk more about himself and his beliefs, and what was
important to him... and what should be important to us. Was that the
reason he left television? I donno.

The Important Part
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Tony is married; he has three young kids, and a slew of pets. Tony
talked about the importance of being with his family -- cookouts in the
back yard; raking leaves in the fall; eating dinner together; spending
time with his family and friends. And Tony talked about his faith. Though
he is not pushy, he is a man of great faith.
He leads by example as much as by his words. He walks the walk.
Tony is an avid music fan, and an amateur musician; emphasis on
"amateur," he would say. He plays the sax, flute, and guitar with a local
group of long-time friends. Playing with his friends -- that is important
to him.
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The business pushes radio talk show hosts to make local appearances.
Most on-the-rise stars hate it. Most established stars do not do it. I
met Tony at a Chevrolet dealer in Brandon, Florida in January, 2005.
There were about 30 people in the showroom where Tony hosted his national
talk show. During commercial breaks, he recorded promos, talked to the
audience, and signed autographs. He really seemed to enjoy it. When he
talked about his family, you could feel the depth of his devotion to the
people and the things that matter most. Yeah, he is the real thing.
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A month later, I won a Vermont Teddy Bear from Tony Snow; trivia, of
course. Don't ask; he is not for sale.
Shortly after that, Tony learned that he had colon cancer. He was off
the air for several months while he underwent extensive treatment. As I
would have expected, Tony bounced back. He never complained; never said,
"Why me?" I am certain that the thought never entered his mind. Above
all, he was grateful for the support he had received from all over the
country, particularly from members of his radio audience.
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When you learn you have a threatening disease, you must make a choice.
You can curl into the fetal position and declare, "I'm doomed!" or you
can roll up your sleeves and ask, "What do I need to do to beat this
thing? -- http://www.jewishworldreview.com/tony/snow050605.php3
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Two words kept going through my mind when I thought of Tony Snow:
courage and class.
When word leaked in April, 2006 that Tony had been offered the job of
press secretary to President Bush, he let his radio audience know that
the decision would be a family decision; not a career decision; not an
individual decision. His family allowed him take the huge pay cut to work
in the White House at a very difficult time with an unpopular
president.
Courage and class.
There are people on the other side who do not always like what Tony
says. But I have heard no one say a word against him personally.
Less than a year into his latest assignment, Tony learned that the
cancer had returned; this time on the edge of his liver. This is not good
news. Still, Tony was back at work a month later. While he was gone,
whitehouse.gov offered a form to send Tony Snow a note. I decided, "What
the heck," and told him what I thought of him... and then forgot all
about it.
Last week, 15 months later, I received the following reply from Tony
Snow. Please take time to read it carefully:
THE WHITE HOUSE
Washington
Thank you for the wonderful email, and for including me in your
thoughts.
I have gotten hundreds of cards and emails from all over the country,
and I'm amazed and delighted by each and every one. The entire path of
my life over the last few years has taught me a very valuable lesson:
that blessings come in unexpected packages. Although I normally wouldn't
consider cancer a blessing, it has brought forth acts of kindness from
friends and strangers-and helped me understand the real power of
kindness and concern. It is as if I had been hoisted on the shoulders of
others, who have taken up my burden, and raised me up, so I can look at
life from a new and wonderful perspective.
That's one of the great things about being an American: people in this
country just want to do the right thing for others. And having been the
recipient of your kindness, I can assure you that I'm doing everything
in my power to learn from and emulate your example. Little gestures-a
call, an email, even a smile-can have enormous healing power, not just
on the person in need, but the person offering the encouragement. Isn't
it great how we always feel better when we do the right things?
So thank you for strengthening my faith in the things that matter-and
from the bottom of my heart, thanks for taking the time to write to
me.
What a great gift!
God bless,
TONY SNOW
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Courage and class, huh?
Now, did Tony Snow sit down and compose that letter personally, for me,
the Chicowitz? I seriously doubt it. But it was addressed and sent to me,
personally, not to "undisclosed-recipients." And it came from the White
House e-mail server, from Tony Snow's personal e-mail address.
Yeah; he is the real thing.
You can read Tony Snow's syndicated columns here:
http://www.jewishworldreview.com/tony/snow.archives.asp
Many of his essays involve presidential politics. But many of them
address the issues that you and I should care about most... the issues
that affect our lives every day.
I know; it feels better to put on the jersey of your favorite football
hero and watch him on television. It is more exciting to think of what it
would be like to schmooze with your favorite movie star. But if you are
looking for what really matters, the core values of our lives, latch on
to Tony Snow. He leads the way. Tony Snow is a terrific role model for
our times.
Tony Snow is one of us. Or, more precisely, he is what we all
would like to be.
Amazing Update
A few days after I posted this essay, and at the risk of bugging him, I
sent Tony a followup note:
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Tony -
You're welcome.
Now, you have to write a book. I have promoted you as a wonderful role
model, which you are: http://www.bbhq.com/tonysnow.htm.
Now you have to put your philosophy and approach to life into a book. It's
the next step in your career. Big advance; work from home. Fits
perfectly.
The country needs more of you, Tony. Please give us a book.
Thank you,
-- Hershel M. Chicowitz
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I did it just for the heck of it... ya' gotta take a stab at it.
Less than five hours later, in the middle of the night, this showed up in
my mailbox:
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Hershel,
Thanks for the wonderful note and the tribute on your webpage. I can't tell
you how much I appreciate both.
I am going to take your advice on a book. After I leave the White House, I
plan on doing a book that touches on the great themes: Life, death; faith,
hope. I've been tinkering with some ideas about how to pull it all
together, and will get serious about a proposal once I've moved on from the
present job.
Again, thanks for the note. I'm flattered that you still have the Teddy
Bear and the note I sent after you won the contest -- and that you came out
to the Chevy dealership in Brandon. I had a great time when I was there
(and even managed to persuade the owner of the dealership to let me
test-drive a Corvette!).
I hope all is well with you. I have just finished a chemo round, and it
looks as if the tumors are "stable" -- which is the medical term for "not
growing." In my book, that counts as remission.
Best,
Tony
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Courage and class... and a genuine, terrific guy!
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